Welcome to “Thoughts and Things,” where I dive into the heart of life in my small town, explore the ins and outs of local and national politics, and share personal reflections that matter to me and, hopefully, to you too. Here, you’ll find a blend of insightful commentary and candid observations, all aimed at sparking conversation and connecting with those who care about the world around us.
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My thoughts on things...
In this section, I offer a glimpse into my personal journey, sharing experiences, challenges, and triumphs that shape who I am today. From the mundane to the extraordinary, I reflect on the moments that matter most, inviting you to connect with the relatable and often humorous side of life.
Lost in translation
Life in my forties is a weird time and left me lost in translation. I’m too young to be old, but way too old to be young.
The Oxford Comma: Love it or hate it?
The Oxford comma, also known as the serial comma, has been a topic of debate among writers, editors, and grammarians for years. It’s the comma placed before the final “and” or “or” in a list of three or more items (e.g., “apples, oranges, and bananas”). Some argue that it’s essential for clarity, while others believe it can be redundant. In this blog, we’ll explore the pros and cons of using the Oxford comma, when it should be used, and when it might be best to leave it out.
Parenting Reflections: The Challenge of Grown Children
There is nothing worse, as a mother, than when your grown child presents you with a problem that your experience could easily resolve, only to refuse any semblance of advice or parental wisdom. The amount of time you get to prepare your children for life is far briefer than you ever expect. One minute they’re running around in diapers and seeking your guidance in all things, and the next, they’re married with three children, living halfway across the country.
Embracing Digital Storytelling: A Journey
Embracing digital storytelling has been a transformative experience, allowing me to reconnect with my creative roots and explore new dimensions of narrative. Whether you’re a writer, artist, or just a curious mind, diving into digital storytelling can open up a world of possibilities. Here’s to embracing new forms of storytelling and continuing the adventure of creative expression!
Navigating without a degree
My son is going to get his associates degree from LCC later this year. I’m so proud of his accomplishments and how hard he’s worked at finishing the course. It wasn’t easy, for either of us. As he’s my youngest, his impending graduation has left me feeling out of sorts. Incomplete.
I didn’t know what I didn’t know
On Christmas morning this past year, Derrick put a ring on my finger. I knew we were getting married, but I didn’t know how, when…
My thoughts on my town...
As someone deeply invested in my community, I cover the latest happenings in our town with a focus on the stories that impact our daily lives. Whether it’s a new local initiative, a community event, or an issue that needs attention, I bring you the news with a personal touch, highlighting the people and places that make our town unique.
Why Local News Matters: The Stories Behind Our Community
In today’s fast-paced digital world, where information is constantly at our fingertips, the importance of local journalism often gets overshadowed by global headlines and viral content. However, local news remains a vital part of our communities, providing stories that resonate with us on a personal level and ensuring that we stay informed about the issues that directly impact our lives. Here’s why local news matters more than ever.
Why Can’t You See the Kinston I See?
As I reflect on how I came to Kinston, it strikes me how perceptions determine the narrative of any town. Unfortunately for Kinston, the folks with the worst perceptions have the loudest voices.
When to think, when to pray, when to plan, when to do
We need more than thoughts and prayers from our leaders. How do you solve the problem of violence in a city?
My thoughts on politics...
Politics is more than just a topic; it’s a passion. In this section, I delve into both local and national political landscapes, offering my take on the policies, debates, and decisions that shape our future. I aim to provide a balanced perspective, sparking thoughtful discussion and encouraging readers to stay informed and engaged in the political process.
I don’t know why, I just don’t like Kamala Harris
“I don’t know why, I just don’t like her.” That phrase always struck me as odd every time I heard it during the 2016 election. To hear it again eight short years later is beyond ridiculous to me. Vice President Kamala Harris deserves to be exactly where she is. I just can’t figure out where the hate is coming from. Hmm.
What the Supreme Court’s Abortion Ruling Means for Women
States now get to decide the value of a woman’s life after the United States Supreme Court overturned Roe V. Wade.
The Social Agenda
The weaponization of fear has become the new normal, with both sides of a hidden war embracing a deadly virus as their flag. The left, the right, the conservatives, the progressives, QAnon and Antifa have more in common than dissension.
We broke our vows to never forget
As I scrolled through Facebook, the vows to “Never Forget” memes that are ever-present in the month of September fill my feed.
The pros and cons of DC statehood
A Gallup poll in 2019 indicated that two-thirds of Americans oppose giving Washington D.C. statehood. A new bill could change that.
Exploring the Family Security Act and poverty
Senator Mitt Romney’s Family Security Act aims to support families by providing direct monthly payments up to $1,200 per month.